24 October 2026

The Day

From a 1pm arrival to a 1am farewell — here's how the day unfolds.

  1. 10:00 am

    Access to Hayloft

    The Hayloft opens for set-up and preparations.

  2. 10:00 am

    Access for Suppliers

    Caterers, florists and suppliers begin their magic.

  3. 12:30 pm

    Groom Arrival

    The groom and groomsmen arrive and get ready.

  4. 1:00 pm

    Guest Arrival

    Guests arrive at Lapstone Barn. A drink will be waiting.

  5. 1:15 pm

    Bride Registrar Meeting

    A short private meeting before the ceremony begins.

  6. 1:30 pm

    Ceremony

    The bit we've been waiting for. Please be seated by 1:25pm.

  7. 2:00 pm

    Confetti Shot

    Celebrate the newlyweds with confetti on the lawn.

  8. 2:05 pm

    Drinks Reception

    Bubbles, canapés and (fingers crossed) Cotswold sunshine on the south-facing lawn.

  9. 4:00 pm

    Guests Seated for Meal

    Take your seats in the barn for the wedding breakfast.

  10. 5:00 pm

    Evening Entertainment Set Up

    The band gets ready while guests relax.

  11. 6:15 pm

    Speeches

    Tissues optional, laughter compulsory.

  12. 7:00 pm

    Evening Guest Arrival

    Evening guests join the celebration.

  13. 7:55 pm

    Cake Cutting

    A small cake-cutting to mark the groom's birthday. Yes — it's a double celebration.

  14. 8:00 pm

    First Dance

    The floor officially opens.

  15. 8:05 pm

    Evening Entertainment

    The barn warms up. Dance the night away.

  16. 1:00 am

    Carriages

    All things — even the best ones — must end. Thank you for being with us for the evening.

A Double Celebration

It's also Hamish's birthday

By happy coincidence, our wedding day falls on Hamish's birthday. We'll mark it properly with a small cake cutting in the evening — so be sure to be in the barn around 7:55 pm with a glass in hand.

Inside Lapstone Barn dressed for a wedding

Good to know

Small details

Dress code

Formal. The Cotswolds in late October can be crisp — bring a layer for the evening.

Children

We adore yours, but this will be an adult-only celebration.

Parking

Plenty of on-site parking at the barn. Cars may be left overnight and collected the following morning.

Phones

We'll have a photographer capturing everything — please be present during the ceremony and let us share the photos afterwards.